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Kay Vinson's avatar

You nailed it with the Wabi-Sabi. Kinda. I didn't run into the word "lesbian" in your piece. Using the word queer to reflect all of us under the big Rainbow Umbrella works fine in many ways, but often it does not. Leaving out the "L" word disappears lesbians incrementally. The mention of Audre Lorde was great, but I believe she was the lone lesbian in the list of individuals you offered up. Thank you for listening.

David Begor 🏳️‍🌈 🐸's avatar

Hi Kay, I do use “queer” a lot for its inclusivity, but you’re right—naming “lesbian” matters. I’ll be mindful of calling out lesbians specifically, so no voices get lost or overlooked in the future. Genuinely appreciate your feedback.

Vince Roman's avatar

Love this thanks for sharing

Derek's avatar

Kintsugi - have loved this idea - this way of being - since I first learned of it. As a metaphor for life - yes!